I am a 54 year old Caucasian homosexual male living and working in Grahamstown in the Eastern Cape Province in South Africa. I am not married, have never been divorced, have no children and live on my own while I am also in the closet. Being homosexual in South Africa is a very big risk. If the Central Government Changes our Constitution which they have done before we are definitely be killed like in Zimbabwe. I am very seriously attracted to more senior, chubby, older homosexual men who are real gentlemen but I have not been sexually active with a man since 2009 I am very lonely and I want to be with a very nice gentleman who can be my lover and friend for life.. I am not religious, hate politics and reasonably easy-going. I want to make my partner very happy, pamper him, treat him well, make him happy to the best of my ability and satisfy him by making incredible love to him in any way that satisfy him in total. That in itself arouses me and makes me happy. I also like all the good things in life. Many hugs and kisses!!!!!