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Just a really nice, normal guy. I'm looking for a committed, monogamous, long-term “part-time” boyfriend--someone to spend weekends with and sometimes time during the week or small trips. I don't pay here, so if you want to chat you can find me as TakeAChanceOnMe on Adam4Adam or send me a message at bearhunter_roc at that America which is on/line.

I've got a unique situation--I am in a LTR, but my partner can't have sex or be intimate. So, he encouraged me to find someone to fulfill the needs he can't. I had a boyfriend before and it was a great relationship. I guess I'm polyamorous, because I have enough love and caring for more than one person. My relationship with my previous boyfriend was just as real and committed as my LTR.

I know it's odd and most guys don't want to get involved. But, I'm hoping someone will take a chance on me, as I have a lot to offer. If someone is willing to take a chance, they’ll find out what a great, loving and caring boyfriend I am.

What have you got to lose?

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Sex Preferences

I preferBottom / Versatile
I'm aBear
OutEveryone knows
HIV StatusNegative


EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritagePolish
Height6' 2" (188 cm)
Eye ColorBlue
Facial HairBeard
Best featureEyes
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
My attractiveness:Average


AvailabilityYour Place
Has a carYes

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAwesome but not a priority

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isGreat with the right partner
Size matterNo, Not at all