Older top looking for a relationship with a younger bottom. I live in Phoenix and will probably not be able to relocate so I would need to find someone close or willing to relocate if we get that far.

I am currently living with my ex (he has his own bedroom) and he will probably continue to live with me for a while until he can get on his own feet so if we start talking or consider a relationship it would take quite a bit of trust on your side. I promise you I have never cheated on anyone and never would! But words are cheap and it will probably take some time for us to completely trust one another.

About me. . .

I am 42 and in a pretty good place in my life right now. Have a decent job with a decent income. I am saving a down payment over the next year or two so I can buy a house. I am pretty outgoing socially. I consider myself masc and not a pride parade type. My family knows about me, so I am not in the closet, but don't make a point of broadcasting either, so probably would not be considered "out". I enjoy most any form of entertainment from TV, to Movies, to whatever sounds like fun at the time. I have no idea what else you might want to know so I will tell you that I am a very open person and would answer any question you ask.

About what I am looking for. . .

I prefer a younger, but they need to be past the stage where they are looking for parental guidance. I am not looking to be anyone's' "Dad" in the traditional sense. I prefer masculine types (muscles not required, but not fem or submissive) and drama free is a must. Non-smokers preferred, or some one who is willing to quit. They need to be looking to the future, for a career, for their own self advancement. The person I am looking for will not make me complete. I am complete with or without them, and the person I am looking for will be complete with or without me. I want to find someone who is his own person and has his own life and is willing to share that person and life with me just as I will share my person and life with him. I want someone who is silly from time to time, but understands when we must be serious. I want someone who is loving but will not bend to who I want and lose who he is. I want someone who will go with me to some event they hate just because I ask. I want someone who will ask me to go to some event I hate and know that I will go just because he asked.

If any of this sound interesting, let me know.