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Just a simple guy looking for another

Hey there,

Let me first say that matter who it is, dating is hard! I started off vigorously with this profile and have to say it led to some interesting characters. It got tot the point I hardly checked it because it was either for sex, or to fulfill some fantasy. But a little booty call with someone that I click with is cool as well (is that a fantasy as well?). Let me break it down, the fantasy always ends.

So with that in mind, here is my profile. i will try in the new year to take a gander more often. Take care.

Down to earth person here. Looking for someone can have fun with. Love talking politics, music, philosophy, movies and many other topics.

I am passionate, caring and upfront. I work a lot and am looking for someone who will lift me up as well as I lift him up.

I am thinking there are guys out there who get that. I guess that is the hopeless romantic in me.

I guess with so many labels I would have to say I am Transgender/Androgynous (?) I do drag for a living and love doing it. The balance. I do like going with bisexual guys because they find me beautiful in and out of full garb.

I have a positive outlook in life. I know it can sound very corny, but that is how I see things. If it is done with integrity, you can't lose.

Let me know so we can start something special.

I do work around a lot of people all the time. I am looking for a guy who can handle being with me at functions. Next to me, unashamed. I am looking for the special guy who can giggle with me, laugh and dance the night away with abandon.

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Sex Preferences

I'm aChub
DemeanorFeminine
OutEveryone knows
HIV StatusNegative

Appearance

EthnicityBlack
BuildA few extra pounds
Height168 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorDark brown
Best featureSmile
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s)

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsYes
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Wants to RelocateYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyEntertainment / Media
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$25,000 - $50,000

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence
My perfect matchThe whole beauty is within is so true, he becomes more handsome as I get to know him. Looks fade, but humor and laughter is everlasting. Be honest with who you are about yourself as I will be too. I am a romantic at heart, but I will not be picking out china patterns after a first meeting. I know I am a power bottom (if that means anything anymore). It takes time and that seems to be what most guys think they don't have.
Our first dateOn a first date, I would love to either go out to lunch or have us make it at one of our homes. Something out of the ordinary like roller skating, going to a drive-in or an art gallery opening...

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:A couple times a week
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Night clubs, Adult theaters, Regular Bars, Adult book stores, Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isGreat with the right partner
Sex toys:None of the above
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":So not into: Water sports, fisting, racial bullshit, choking, slamming (but like to party), and anything else, I will now it when I see it.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyThere are so many, mostly the ones of me being used and abused (mutually) by being pimped out of some sort.

Or meeting someone on the street and taking him home or better yet, to an alley! HA!
Fantasy locationTrain, Moving car, At a park, Dark alley, Bleachers of a stadium, On the beach, Library, In a taxi cab, Public bathroom, Restaurant
Fantasy sex partner:Someone who isn't totally into himself but knows how to push my buttons and lets me push his as well. Someone who knows how to let me cum and wants to cum with me. I guess someone who isn't a selfish lover.